Post by Ra'D on Jul 7, 2008 7:23:59 GMT -5
Tal, Rorik. I wanted to let a few days pass before addressing you about my concerns from the other night. I was irritated with your slave for interfering with the conversation of men. Bond or whatever I don’t really care what a slave thinks about how I handle the women that wear my collar. She has no place in the conversation between you and I about the rules of the home.
When I was first courting Tora I read all the rules and she can tell you that I felt if I had any trouble in AxeHolme it would be over these rules. I’ll return to that in a bit. As for my slaves. I have a habit of working my slaves. Generally they have assigned duties. I am not one that requires daily chore posting as long as I see it happening. I think you all just got a misunderstanding based on the timing of things. We were not in the home long. My attentions were focused on Tora and performing the tasks you wanted done before claiming her.
Additionally, the slave song was in the hospital for a week and not in the room and so not working. If you look here silentsongs.proboards106.com/index.cgi?board=chore you will see that she stays busy. This is where she posts the work she does for me. I have her on several tasks atm. And yes when she returned from the illness she didn’t post chores she came to me and wanted attention. That’s really all you or your slave know about her.
The slave mercy is new to me. I had never even touched her before entering AxeHolme. So we took opportunity at the Hot Springs twice to interact sexually. I admit she does not post chores yet. I’m working with her and training her as time passes. If she loves her collar then she will do the things I ask.
As for the slaves in general. I have many years with slaves and have well defined rules of my own. I don’t allow anyone to interfere between me and my slaves. I don’t allow outside trainers. I train my own women. I handle their collars. They don’t read anything but their name and my collar. It’s all anyone needs to know about that. They’re a slave and belong to me and they don’t have a home other than in my collar. They are not home slaves and under no one’s control but mine. Of course I require them to respond as a slave to any free given the situation.
I do not restrict my slaves but I also don’t put them out there for everyone to use. They stay with me and don’t wander the Fair or other gathering places. I might offer one to a friend for an evening’s entertainment. And if I left them tethered out in a public area I of course could reasonably expect them to get used. Why I don’t. I’m not fond of tags littered with restrictions and special notations for slaves. You wanta use one of my girls. Ask and I might grant it but they are not there for the taking. I value both of them. That’s why they belong to me.
Regarding the slave rules:
Tags guidelines of each bond maid are also found on the training page. I’ve already addressed this. ~slave~{Ra’D} is the tags, nothing more.
“Slaves will always be in the Holmes collar.” – unacceptable.
“All slaves will be trained by trainers appointed by the Jarl.” - I do my own slave training.
“As the Warriors and Guests sit at tables on Chairs or benches bond maids will serve standing. Serving from the left side of the Person they serve. bonds will need to practice this to achieve the desired subtleties and sensuality in this serve.” - My slaves serve as I direct them.
“A slave may never private message (p.m.) a Free Person without permission for any reason.” – My slaves are not allowed to us PM at any time.
“Upon Entering, go to the bonds-maids circle. Then greet, offer to serve and then do chores.” - My slaves come to me upon entering and kneel to greet.
“Greeting order” – My slaves greet me first.
“Chores, are to be written in the Isle, then cut and pasted to the Chore Board and will include the time stamp.” – song posts chores to her board, a link can be provided. On this note I assign their work. These are not women that belong to AxeHolme. Nor do they report to your slave. She has no standing with them.
Not major discrepancies really. I thought Tora had generally gone over these things with you. The conflict arose over a few things in my estimations. The interference of your slave in our conversation. It’s not acceptable for a slave. The attitude of your slave on the boards. Her disrespect for both me and the women that belong to me was readily apparent. And it is not acceptable behavior. My estimation is she waited for Tora to leave and them made a play to drive us from the home. Why I have no idea.
What she is required to do by you is your business. How I handle my slaves is none of hers. I will point out that song is no southern silkie. And neither are fat or lazy. Your slave seems to feel she runs things. Under other circumstances I might cut her tongue out for her insults to me. I only refrained out of respect for you.
Basically we weren’t give much time to get settled. I had a new girl and one in the hospital plus my courting of Tora and your requirements regarding same. These all made getting in a routine more difficult. But if my concerns are of no matter to you then I do wish you well and I will return the AxeHolme tags to you. Just let me know.
When I was first courting Tora I read all the rules and she can tell you that I felt if I had any trouble in AxeHolme it would be over these rules. I’ll return to that in a bit. As for my slaves. I have a habit of working my slaves. Generally they have assigned duties. I am not one that requires daily chore posting as long as I see it happening. I think you all just got a misunderstanding based on the timing of things. We were not in the home long. My attentions were focused on Tora and performing the tasks you wanted done before claiming her.
Additionally, the slave song was in the hospital for a week and not in the room and so not working. If you look here silentsongs.proboards106.com/index.cgi?board=chore you will see that she stays busy. This is where she posts the work she does for me. I have her on several tasks atm. And yes when she returned from the illness she didn’t post chores she came to me and wanted attention. That’s really all you or your slave know about her.
The slave mercy is new to me. I had never even touched her before entering AxeHolme. So we took opportunity at the Hot Springs twice to interact sexually. I admit she does not post chores yet. I’m working with her and training her as time passes. If she loves her collar then she will do the things I ask.
As for the slaves in general. I have many years with slaves and have well defined rules of my own. I don’t allow anyone to interfere between me and my slaves. I don’t allow outside trainers. I train my own women. I handle their collars. They don’t read anything but their name and my collar. It’s all anyone needs to know about that. They’re a slave and belong to me and they don’t have a home other than in my collar. They are not home slaves and under no one’s control but mine. Of course I require them to respond as a slave to any free given the situation.
I do not restrict my slaves but I also don’t put them out there for everyone to use. They stay with me and don’t wander the Fair or other gathering places. I might offer one to a friend for an evening’s entertainment. And if I left them tethered out in a public area I of course could reasonably expect them to get used. Why I don’t. I’m not fond of tags littered with restrictions and special notations for slaves. You wanta use one of my girls. Ask and I might grant it but they are not there for the taking. I value both of them. That’s why they belong to me.
Regarding the slave rules:
Tags guidelines of each bond maid are also found on the training page. I’ve already addressed this. ~slave~{Ra’D} is the tags, nothing more.
“Slaves will always be in the Holmes collar.” – unacceptable.
“All slaves will be trained by trainers appointed by the Jarl.” - I do my own slave training.
“As the Warriors and Guests sit at tables on Chairs or benches bond maids will serve standing. Serving from the left side of the Person they serve. bonds will need to practice this to achieve the desired subtleties and sensuality in this serve.” - My slaves serve as I direct them.
“A slave may never private message (p.m.) a Free Person without permission for any reason.” – My slaves are not allowed to us PM at any time.
“Upon Entering, go to the bonds-maids circle. Then greet, offer to serve and then do chores.” - My slaves come to me upon entering and kneel to greet.
“Greeting order” – My slaves greet me first.
“Chores, are to be written in the Isle, then cut and pasted to the Chore Board and will include the time stamp.” – song posts chores to her board, a link can be provided. On this note I assign their work. These are not women that belong to AxeHolme. Nor do they report to your slave. She has no standing with them.
Not major discrepancies really. I thought Tora had generally gone over these things with you. The conflict arose over a few things in my estimations. The interference of your slave in our conversation. It’s not acceptable for a slave. The attitude of your slave on the boards. Her disrespect for both me and the women that belong to me was readily apparent. And it is not acceptable behavior. My estimation is she waited for Tora to leave and them made a play to drive us from the home. Why I have no idea.
What she is required to do by you is your business. How I handle my slaves is none of hers. I will point out that song is no southern silkie. And neither are fat or lazy. Your slave seems to feel she runs things. Under other circumstances I might cut her tongue out for her insults to me. I only refrained out of respect for you.
Basically we weren’t give much time to get settled. I had a new girl and one in the hospital plus my courting of Tora and your requirements regarding same. These all made getting in a routine more difficult. But if my concerns are of no matter to you then I do wish you well and I will return the AxeHolme tags to you. Just let me know.
